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Grand Children are Our Rewards

I always knew there would come a time when one of my children, or all of them, would have kids. I remember thinking how that would make me a grandmother! I don’t know why we always associate being a grandparent as being old. We are not older, we are wiser. It’s just like having lines appear on our faces; those crinkles that pop up almost suddenly. They don’t mean we are old. They just mean we have had expression. We have lived, laughed, been surprised and even cried. They become etched upon our faces to remind us of the moments we enjoyed and those we overcame. In the same way, grandchildren remind us of a job well done. We are blessed! God says that birthing children is an inheritance. That inheritance goes onward to become even more “grand” as the years go by. I saw both of my granddaughters as soon as they were born. Alexsys, my first, was with me the first year of her life during the day while her mama went back …

What is Assumption Really Doing?

We have all heard of jealousy as being the “green eyed monster”, but I feel assuming is more green and more monstrous. Assumption speaks out a lie about someone else. When someone assumes they think they know what the other is thinking, or what the intentions of the heart are, without asking. The first thing that happens with a negative assumption is we react. Usually its with hurt or anger. The hard part is the reaction is just as much as a lie as the assumption. When we really think about it, when someone assumes they are lying to themselves. It’s not the other person or situation, it is actually a reflection of the assumer’s own consciousness. We assume out of our pain, anger, or past experiences. Assumption believes that another person’s actions are like someone else they knew, or an experience they had before. So what are the keys that unlock assumption? ASK the other person about their intent, words, or actions. BELIEVE the best in the situation and not just take on the …

A Lesson from the Cross We Don’t Always Think About

Easter weekend always brings a sense of spring, good weather, celebration, family, and food. Alright, these days sometimes the weather is not all the greatest around. But Easter brings up thoughts of chocolate, hard boiled and dyed eggs, leg of lamb and family gatherings. In the Christian church the focus is on Jesus, the cross, His sacrifice, His rising, and His love. In a time of celebration, the church has been lifting up Jesus every year for centuries for His acceptance of an experience that has gone down in history as one of the most profound acts of sacrificial love ever known to humankind. I have been so contemplative recently, as I meditated on the cross and what Jesus endured that day on Calvary’s mountain. I let my mind wander to the scene in the garden when Jesus prayed, sweat and cried, with blood, and anguish. He knew He was going to be crucified. Did He want this? Who would? We know He did not in his words, “Father please take this cup from me.” …

No Exceptions, All Creation, Everyone, Speaks of the Glory of God! (video) YOU Are Proof That God IS….

Hello dear ones! I want to extend this video to you for your empowerment and to add to your thoughts about God and our unified nature in God/Christ. Please be in peace and love yourself as God does! He lives in you .  You are proof there is a God because God’s nature lives in you!   Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry          

When People Are “Givers”

The other day I read an article about people who are naturally givers. One of the points that really stuck out in me is the comment that givers should naturally also be receivers. If we are really truly to believe that we reap what we sow then it follows suit that giving out should reap receiving. The hard thing for some of us, including me, is that it can be more difficult to receive. Why that is, I really don’t know for sure. Maybe its a sense of being unworthy of what we, or I, am getting. But, there comes a time when we, as well as I, need to activate our faith and show that we truly believe it. Last night I created a GoFundMe campaign for my counseling/coaching office and eventually healing center. The amount is for one years lease. That is what I am believing for. I played with this idea for a long time. I would think of it, leave it alone, and then think of it again. After writing on …

Boutique Top to Benefit Serenity! Check this out!

  This is one eBay item of several that are coming. Purchase of any item for sale goes to benefit Serenity, my place of emotional/mental/spiritual healing. eBay items go on sale and this is the weekend for this item to be on sale! They are new boutique items with tags and returnable if the fit is not right. They run bigger than the usual size. I wear a medium and a small fits me. So, go a bit smaller. A large most likely will fit as an XL etc. Purchase is on eBay only and there is an option to make an offer as well. See this item in all sizes on eBay- click here!   Blessings! Dr. Jenine ** I will be listing items as I obtain them. What is seen on eBay is what is available for now. Check back and see the items I add! If there is a request of a particular type of item, I will do my best to find what you are seeking. blessings!  

Staying In Integrity While Dealing With Narcissistic People

One of the more difficult people to deal with in relationship are those who are narcissists. For some reason this has become a buzz phrase to attach to anyone who seems to be “in to themselves”, but a true narcissist is more than just a cliche. A narcissist can spin someone’s head around so fast it happens before they know what hit them. One of the traits a narcissist will use on their victim is to not stay in integrity with what they have done or said. Basically this means they will say something one moment and then later, or even in the next five minutes contradict what they said or even deny saying it. This is enough to make anyone frustrated and upset. So, if you are one who deals with this now, don’t despair even if you are reacting in harsh ways. You are trying to make sense of something that does not make sense and you are standing up for your self preservation. The Bible says that a “double minded man is …